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First Swap From Online...

Friday, Mar. 19, 2004, at 3:28 p.m.

My first "meet someone online for the specific reason to swap" wasn't the greatest.

We met up with a couple...who insisted on meeting at their home, but I put my foot down and said NO WAY...in public or not at all.

We met at a bakery/coffee shop, where we chatted and got to know each other a little. They seemed nice enough. Neither of them extremely physically attractive, but I'm no Barbie Doll myself.

We went back to their place. They had an entire bedroom set up just for playing. It was actually pretty cool. They had a tv with porn playing and they had a bag of "toys".

He was a rather large man (his body) but his....err....member...was small. Now, I'm one of those women who will insist size doesn't matter...much. Problem is...he couldn't get it hard enough to enter me. So it was a lot of me going down on him with him doing very little to help me out.

I chalked it up to nervousness, but we did meet them a second time and the same thing happened. He's just not a very affectionate person, actually, he didn't have much personality at all.

Meanwhile, hubby was doing some awesome work on the wife. He massaged her and went down on her and finally fucked her. She enjoyed herself...WE THINK... She didn't make noises. It was weird really. I guess I was used to ME...loud and into sex.

I went down on her the second time we played and she made some noises with me. She also fucked me with a strap on. That's the only time I've done that. It was ok, but nothing like having a real life cock buried inside of me.

So, back to HIM. I found out later, when playing with another couple, that he is like this with all women. Very weird to hear someone talking about him and not knowing that I had been with him also (I did confess after the conversation, that I had been with him too and agreed with the woman wholeheartedly).

So, not all experiences in swinging are good. But I've never had one that was awful. That's a good thing I suppose.

Swinger Girl

My first time...with a woman...and a man...*grin*

Thursday, Mar. 18, 2004, at 2:31 p.m.

This was the letter I wrote to my now husband about my very first threesome.

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We went to dinner first. Very nice restaurant whose name escapes me right now. I got there first and had a drink at the bar.

I saw her first (I'd seen her photo...she sent it) and suddenly got very nervous, but I walked over to them and said hello and we were seated.

We had a lot of small talk, I went to the bathroom like a 100 times (drank a lot of water and I was nervous). We had dessert and she asked if I wanted to come back to the house for wine. I said sure and followed them home.

They have a beautiful home. We sat down in the living room, and talked about stuff. She and I did most of the talking. She talked about meeting him and about their wedding, etc. She asked about my ex and asked if I was dating anyone (at the time you and I had just been with each other for the first time the week before), so I told her about you.

After she had quite a bit of wine (she had two martinis at dinner) she asked me, or rather she said, "If you kiss me, I'll kiss you". I just couldn't. It was awkward...we weren't even sitting next to each other. I guess he got the drift and went upstairs for a few minutes. She got more wine and sat next to me.

After a moment or two, she leaned in and kissed me. It started off very soft and timid, but felt very natural and we were able to really kiss. No other touching except that I had my hand on her face.

When he came back in, I was blushing bright red and she was holding my hand. We whispered and she said I was a good kisser. I smiled and said she took my girl virginity. ;-)

Once he was seated and comfy we kissed again...and a lot.

He didn't say anything, just sat there and watched.

She then offered to show me the rest of the house.

We went upstairs and the master bedroom was pretty much a shambles...all the furniture in the middle of the room, the stuff covered in plastic...typical for painting.

Then she showed me one of the extra bedrooms...smaller room. The computer room where they email me from, then the other extra bedroom (that has it's own bathroom). We kissed again and dimmed the lights and I think he left and came back...I can't remember.

We, at that point, started feeling each other. She was able to unhook my bra quickly...damn, better than most men! I took off my shirt and bra and she kissed my breasts. I then helped her with her shirt...and removing her bra was more difficult for me. ;-)

I was anxious to touch her. I'd always wondered what it would be like to touch another woman's breasts and it was so nice. She felt good. She has large breasts and they were fun to play with. :-) I sucked on her nipples, but wasn't as rough with her as I like done to me. She made really interesting noises....another thing I can now understand why men like that.

Her hand traveled down into my pants, I quickly removed them and as I did mine, she did hers...He was still in the corner watching.

After she touched me and slowly fingered me for a while I finally got the nerve to touch her too. It was so weird to feel her. It was a really nice feel. She moved down and went down on me...at that point, he knelt by the bed and held my hand...and stroked her hair.

She asked me if I wanted him to join us and I told her it was up to her.

He joined us at that point. He started with her, kissing and touching her while I sucked her nipples and kissed her mouth. He went down on her.

I asked her if I could go down on him and she said yes. So I did (I guess you know by now that I love going down on a man about as much as you love going down on a woman) and he kissed her and played with her.

She asked me if I wanted to watch him fuck her and I said yes.

He positioned himself and entered her (condoms were used the entire night...I don't think she's on bc) and her sounds got louder and I sucked on her and kissed her some more.

Once she came, he stopped.

She then asked me if I wanted him. I told her yes, if it was ok with her. As he was getting another condom, I went down on her for the first time. I was amazed at how turned on *I* was doing that to her.

(A little background before I mention the next thing...I'd told him before that one of my fantasies was to be sucking a man's cock as another man entered me from behind)

So, here I am with my face buried in her pussy and my ass...up in the air....and he enters me from behind...I was in pure delight. This was more than I ever expected. It was awesome. She got benefits from it too, because the more he fucked me, the more intense I became as I licked and sucked her.

She came and I was feeling really good...he pulled out and I kissed her so she could taste herself. He got yet another condom and fucked her again.

He whispered something to her, she said, "yes" and then told me that she wanted me to straddle her face as he fucked her...so I did.

I swear, I thought this stuff only happened in movies.

Once she came (more than a couple of times) she asked me if I had come yet.

I said no, and she told him to please make me come...so he got another condom (trojan made money that night) and he got on top of me and fucked me as she touched me. I came hard. Realllly hard and realllly loud. (He told me later he was disappointed that I hadn't come more that night, since I'm usually a multiple orgasm-er...*I* on the other hand was not disappointed at all).

He asked her where she wanted him to come and she asked me and I had no answer...so she asked him to come on her tits. He did and she and I licked it off of her. Ok....one thing to be jealous of big breasts...she can lick her own nipple DAMN..how lucky is that???!!!!!

I never kissed him and he never went down on me that night. I think it was kind of an unspoken "deal" that they had made.

She hopped in the shower and left him and I alone...he and I were both still pretty much in shock over the whole thing. Amazed that it happened. Amazed how turned on we both were. It was a fantasy for both of us to watch someone else fuck the other...and he had the extra bonus of watching his wife have me, too. He says he wants to see me with another man...we'll see how that turns out...I've got all kinds of fantasies about the two of you....

She asked me to stay the night, in the other room, and she led me to the shower and gave me a tshirt to wear to bed. The next morning I got up and they walked me downstairs and I left.

He sent me a text message almost before I was out of the subdivision thanking me and I all could think was THANK YOU (both of them).

Swinger Girl

Update

Thursday, Mar. 18, 2004, at 9:05 a.m.

:-) Hello everyone. I'm so sorry that the updates have been sparse.

I have been gone or busy just about every night for the past ten days. I will try to give a decent update this evening when I get out of work.

I appreciate you taking a look at this and will continue to entertain you as I am able.

Swinger Girl

AssReviews...kicks my ass...

Monday, Mar. 15, 2004, at 10:09 a.m.

http://ass-reviews.diaryland.com/index.html

Thanks for the honest review.

SG

MY lunch date.

Thursday, Mar. 11, 2004, at 4:56 p.m.

I had a great lunch today with a couple that we've played with occassionally. I arrived at their place to be greeted by wife and she showed me around downstairs. Then took me upstairs and showed me that the bedroom came fully equipped with a "Man with a hard on".

She undressed me and we made out as he watched, eventually moving to the bed. I went down on her as she sucked her husband. We traded places, switching off here and there.

It was great. I will update more later...heading home.

SwingerGirl

Update on lunch...

Tuesday, Mar. 09, 2004, at 9:19 a.m.

OOPS! It was pointed out that I failed to update you on my hubby's date!!! :-)

She came over and after showing her around the place (her hubby had been over before (*grin*) but she hadn't, they headed to the bedroom.

She got on her knees and took care of him first. Getting him hard and ready for what was to come...heh..so to speak.

He went down on her, and I'm guessing he did it for a long time...it's probably his favorite thing to do...got her nice and worked up. Once they were ready to go, he got her on her knees and they had fun, from what I understand.

Afterwards he gave her a body massage...another of his specialties, and they cuddled and laid there until he had to get back to work and she had to go home.

He and I got home from work at the same time...I had him in the bedroom laying on me telling me all about it until I got him worked up again and we had lots of good sex until we had to go out.

I was beyond excited for hours and hours after that. I could smell her on the comforter and smell her on him and I just loved every minute of it.

I'm sorry I didn't update sooner...thanks for reminding me. :-)

SwingerGirl

Weekend

Monday, Mar. 08, 2004, at 9:09 a.m.

Spent the weekend out of town. Got to flirt with a few people, but we didn't play with anyone.

We talked with people about kinkiness. It's funny how one thing can be considered kinky to one person, but not to another.

We have a date with a new couple on Thursday. Of course I'll update to let you know how it went and if we played or not.

SwingerGirl

Lunch time for hubby...

Friday, Mar. 05, 2004, at 1:59 a.m.

Hubby had lunch with the wife of a couple we play with. I was incredibly turned on all afternoon and couldn't wait to get home to hear about it.

He told me how she went down on him and how he went down on her. I got to see the smile on his face and the satisfaction in his body language. It was so nice.

Of course, I was able to sample some of the fun too. I could smell her on our bed covers as he fucked me from behind...my face buried into the bed.

He's out now, with the guys.

I stayed in and played on line. I enjoyed some great cyber with a new friend on the west coast.

I'm still incredibly horny and can't wait for hubby to come back home tonight.

SwingerGirl

Lunch...?

Thursday, Mar. 04, 2004, at 2:59 p.m.

:-)

Hubby had a lunch date today at home...

I'm dying to get more info...

As soon as I know, so will you.

SwingerGirl

Boring entry...help needed

Thursday, Mar. 04, 2004, at 9:54 a.m.

Hubby is out tonight with the guys. I'm trying to decide if I want to have company or if I should stay in and do all the things around the house that I need to do.

In the mean time, regarding this diary...I need HELP! I can't figure out how to format banners. I can't seem to catch on to it...anyone care to offer assistance?? I bought banners and can't use them!! ACK!!!!

SwingerGirl

Another morning rendezvous...

Wednesday, Mar. 03, 2004, at 12:18 p.m.

For some reason hubby and I are both turned on when he is still naked and I'm dressed for work...

Yesterday it was sex in the foyer, this morning, on the living room floor.

Someone on a chat site asked me if I had ever been sexually abused as a child and the answer is "no". I was never abused sexually or in any other manner. I *do* understand why the question was asked and I am not offended, but I can promise you all that it has never happened to me and for that I am grateful.

The abuse I take now, if you want to call it that, is all for pleasure and play. I've said it before and will again...I won't do anything that I don't WANT to do. I am a strong person and have no problems saying "no". Luckily in this lifestyle it's an unspoken rule...no means no...and seldom is anyone offended by it.

Swinger Girl

Request for punishement

Tuesday, Mar. 02, 2004, at 4:07 p.m.

Apparently I am a glutton for punishement...OK OK...I enjoy punishment on a sexual level as well...but in this case, I've asked "ass-reviews" for an honest opinion.

Mostly I get emails from people excited to read about my escapades, but I want honesty on the content, suggestions on change, someone who will tell me the bare bones truth...

SwingerGirl

Help! Diary problems!

Tuesday, Mar. 02, 2004, at 4:02 p.m.

You may notice that some of the dates are missing on my diary. I've asked for help retrieving them and hopefully in time, they will be back.

In the mean time, I have a couple of folks emailing me from this site. Thank you. Good or bad comments are welcomed, and I will answer any question as honestly as possible without divulging my identity.

I am the girl next door, you know?

SwingerGirl

Morning Quickie

Tuesday, Mar. 02, 2004, at 9:24 a.m.

No swapping in the past few days. It's been nice at home though. We've had plenty of our own fun, including being late for work this morning to squeeze in a quickie.

Worth it. Very worth it.

SwingerGirl

If you have suggestions for a topic or have any questions, please email me and I will try to accommodate.

Out of town again...

Saturday, Feb. 28, 2004, at 12:40 p.m.

Hubby will be gone tonight. Out of town. He suggested I have someone over, but I think I'll just stay in.

Anyone out there have any comments they'd like to share? Positive or negative, I'm ok with either.

SwingerGirl

It's not all sex...

Saturday, Feb. 28, 2004, at 11:53 a.m.

We went out last night with a couple that we've played with on occasion. Just to show you it's not ALL sex, we went to a movie and got coffee afterwards. With the exception of the kisses goodnight in the parking lot, nothing out of the ordinary happened.

The woman is a beautiful, funny, sexy woman. The man is a nice looking man with a sex drive to match mine. :-)

They are fun to be with and fun to "be" with. And even though they are so fun and so sexy, we all still looked forward to going home with our own spouses.

Love is funny. And it's different for everyone.

SwingerGirl

My first fan!

2004-02-27, at 9:19 a.m.

No swapping or swinging done in the past couple of weeks, but home life has been fun. Hubby and I have been fairly active with work and fun and sex lately and are enjoying it.

I did get an email from a reader of this diary who asked more about me. I do have to be careful because of the nature of this lifestyle. The friends we play with (as well as us) have families, friends, children, parents, that don't need to know about what we do on our free time. I will share that I live in Atlanta, GA and that I'm in my 30s. Of course I realize that describes a majority of the folks in Georgia in this lifestyle.

I have been with men and women that are younger and that are older. I've been with parents, grandparents and couples with no children at all. I've been with married swingers and couples who aren't married. I've been with large people and small people. Big breast and small breasts. Big cocks and small cocks. Everyone is different and it's the personality and care and attitude that matters the most to me. As long at they are clean and respectful, looks aren't nearly as important.

No one is perfect, regardless of what your momma tells you.

SwingerGirl

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