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A question from a "fan".

Wednesday, Oct. 06, 2004, at 12:20 p.m.

Recently, I received this question in my email box: Reading your diary has gotten me interested in swinging, (maybe soft at first) and my wife has already expressed interest in sex with another person (threesome) for myself and her. I know
this sounds stupid, but, how does someone go about finding like minded individuals?

First of all, this is not a stupid question at all. Personally I wish there was a secret handshake or pin or something to signify who is a swinger, but as far as I know there isn't.

The best way, in my opinion, is to go on line to a swingers website. There are a few, but the two I recommend are www.swappernet.com and www.swingersboard.com.

My advice is to be honest about yourself(ves) and be selective, but realize no one is perfect and everyone has something to offer.

I've learned new things about pleasing other men just by watching other women. And of course, I've learned a thing or two about pleasing women also...but I still have a LOT to learn...women are complicated!!! :-)

Good luck to any of you who pursue this lifestyle. As usual I will say, it's not for everyone. Read "Talk About Swinging" if you want to know more about the ins and outs of the lifestyle. It'll help answer some of those questions you have and even answer some that you never thought about.

Swinger Girl

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