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stardustcboy - 2004-10-25 12:09:53
i'd say cocktails. it's always a good opener. invite her out for a few cocktails, just the two of you, and see where it goes. such libations are sure to loosen the tongue...i'm reading you. ~B-)
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Lady Ivy - 2004-10-25 16:39:14
Typical male, lost about women. *shakes head* Try playing dumb. Tell her you have been thinking about getting into body piercing, but you aren't sure. It sounds kinda scary, and you wouldn't know where to start, or who to go to. If she is pierced, that will open her up. Now as with most women this is a complex thing. Go here: http://showcase.ca/series/ 3rd show down on the right, read up on it. The name of the show is KinK. It's 100% Canadian, and 100% uncensored. In there they show ppl being pierced, suspensions, and bdsm. See where I am going? Piercing brings up the shows piercing scenes, that evolves into alternative lifestyles, which opens doors. When you mention things from the show, and there is a full episode guide you can quote from, watch her face. If there is a slight hint of anything negative then she is a vanilla girl. But if she starts to chat openly about things, you can mention that you always wondered what those things would be like, and eventually can work in a curiosity about other women. Being blunt and open never works for a woman. Thats why men usually go home with their dick in their hand. Once everything is out in the open you can be open, but getting it all out is tricky. Now, how do I know so much? Easy, I'm a lesbian. Been doing this for years.
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Garrison Steelle - 2004-10-25 17:01:21
I dunno. I tend to agree with Lady Ivy, but this IS Georgia we're talking about. I get more mixed messages from people here than I do anywhere else. If you can see her piercings through her shirt, that's probably a good sign. She's being a bit exhibitionist, though not necessarily "advertising." I would ask her where she got hers, how she likes them, what gauge they are, does she ever change them, etc. What you're fishing for is the invitation to retreat somewhere private where you can see for yourself. If you don't get the invitation, she's probably not open. However, so far I've not had but one instance where I didn't get that invitation for myself ... and I'm all guy. Go for it. I think the fact that you're not being pushy is enough for most who are willing to let you in.
-G
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Dawn (webmiztris) - 2004-10-26 14:11:02
Man, that would be so hard. I feel comfortable flirting with guys, but I would have no idea how to 'test' a woman to see if she's...open...to new ideas. Guys are always upset because they can't figure out women - WOMEN can't even figure out women!! lol
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florist supply fresh cut flower - 2005-12-31 03:28:49
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